How's my mental health today?
Not bad, but the sun is welcome
to put in an appearance any time now. I know my in-laws are relieved that their
fields are getting some moisture, but these dreary wet days are not very beneficial
for people like me who are living with depression.
Nevertheless, life goes on.
An article in the newspaper caught
my attention and has me wondering which reality some people are living in. The headline
read, "Dinosaurs, Halloween, banned from tests."
Apparently schools in New York
City have been given a list of words they may no longer use on city-issued tests.
Dinosaurs, birthdays, dancing,
and Halloween are verboten because they "could evoke unpleasant emotions in
students". (So what happens to Barney?) Terrorism and slavery are too "scary".
Don't mention diseases because students might have a family member that is ill. Divorce is out of the question because students might have family members that are separated or divorced. Don’t mention wealth because students might become
jealous; poverty is also a no-no. The theory seems to be that by removing
these words from tests students will “be able to complete their tests without
distraction”.
I don’t understand this. Is
the intent to train and educate the kids to live in a bubble? What are we doing
to our kids? How far are we going to go to shelter them from the realities of
this world we live in? What is it going to take to wake people up to realize
that protecting our kids’ sensitivities will only cripple them in the long run?
What happens when the kids become adults? Who’s going to protect their sensibilities
then? Who’s going to counsel them when their sheltered sensitivities are
suddenly traumatized by the realities of life?
Who comes up with these
ideas? Are they going to be there to help all these sensitive souls come to
grips with the sudden assault on their emotions when they have to step out of
their bubble? Are we training our kids to live in a grand delusion?
If we fail to train our kids
to function well in the real world, how are they ever going to train our
grandchildren? What kind of price are our grandchildren and their children
going to pay for our society’s refusal to let our kids learn to deal with all
the stuff life will throw at them? Whatever will become of them?
What nonsense are we going to read about next?
What nonsense are we going to read about next?
Maybe you noticed – stories like
this set me off. I better stop this
rant; it’s causing my blood pressure to go up!
Wallow too much in sensitivity
and you can't deal with life, or the truth.
- Neal Boortz
Just so you know, I've been checking in on your posts once in a while Horst. Liking your post today. Agreed - whatever the perceived need is in children that has initiated this type of approach can surely be met in other ways. Bubble evocation in my mind is not the solution. A safe, open environment where issues can be discussed with our kids would be more productive. Carry on.
ReplyDeleteI’m just dropping by to say hello! I look forward to seeing the alphabet all over your blog in April!
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